The Reunion Dinner

Tradition

The typical Chinese home takes great effort to gather all loved ones for this auspicious dinner... the Reunion Dinner on the eve of the Lunar New Year. Traditionally the male factor surpasses every reasoning and the dinner must be at the paternal side. I find it hard to concede to this practice totally... surely a compromise can be derived.

Last year at this time , I had hoped that it would be different this year. That I would be able to persuade daddy for a different decision. That was easier imagined than done.

Maternal Gran : "O, when are you coming back? " Even though I have just been back a couple of weeks ago, it's never enough for them. They want to see you often. How do you tell the dear old folks we are still contemplating?

Paternal Gran: " Son, when are you coming home?" Dad will go " er... er I will let you know..."

Then the husband and wife will put the cards on the table and start to reason. Is there no other reason except the male factor? I beg to differ.

After much contemplation, with the Unseen Help, we found a solution that will make both sides happy...have dinner at both sides !

So, this afternoon we will pick Grace after her call and have an early dinner with the paternal side in Kulai , after which we will make our way to the maternal side in Muar for another dinner ... eat to please everyone at the cost of putting on some unwanted weight. What is the weight though if everyone is happy?

I want to treasure all moments. Next year at this time, Sara will be in the UK and on the 3rd day of this Lunar New Year, Esther will leave me again for Down Under. Getting the nest together as they grow up is a challenge. So, every moment is precious to me.

May all find peace and joy over dinner this evening .

To all friends and loved ones, once again ..."Sin Nien Kwai Ler"